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As you know, giving to others is what this season is all about. And as parents (grandparents, guardians, caretakers) of young children, that’s what we try to do. There is nothing like the feeling of seeing a child’s eyes light up when they open a present we have given them. So how about letting your little one in on the fun? Kindness is a big buzzword right now (rightfully so) and there is no one kinder than a Kindergartener (Preschooler, First Grader). Help your child to find ways to give to others during these days of celebration.
Five year olds love to surprise others with handmade creations like pictures and cards so maybe help them make a list of the special people in their lives and make one for each of them. Just set your child up with paper, crayons, pens, glue, scissors, (glitter if you are brave) and let them create. In the midst of asking Santa for what they want, it’s such a good balance to think of others. And “others” can be everyone from family members to family dogs and cats! Let your child lead the way on whom they want to make presents for.
If your child is not into crafts right now, how about taking them with you to a dollar store and letting them pick out reasonable gifts for those in their lives? Try to let them decide on presents with just a little guidance, if possible. That way they can take ownership of the whole experience. And, of course, let them wrap it on their own. That’s a major part of the fun. 😀
Another thought to show your child that “giving is better than receiving” is to include them if you volunteer anywhere. Or to let them help out if you give to the Toys For Tots program near you. In the classroom, I try to emphasize that “the feeling you get inside from giving to someone ie even better than when you get something.” Four, five and six year olds are so open to that. It’s really beautiful to see!
Whatever you decide, try to let your little on have fun giving to others this holiday season. As they say, “it’s not the gift but the thought that counts”. And they will get so much from bringing a smile to someone else’s face!
Happy Holidays! 🙂
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